Frank Gore Sr. is known to all football fans
Frank Gore Sr. is known to all football fans as one of the most important longtime early running backs in NFL history. Frank Gore Jr. earns his own honors as a second-year running back at the University of Southern Mississippi. The two of them share the same name, playing position and more.
One evening this past summer,
Frank Gore missed his second practice. For a future Hall of Fame member whose
career is built on grueling workouts, it was an unexpected decision. It was as
if a worker bee had suddenly decided to fend off a swarm and sunbathe on tulip
petals instead of working. Traditionally, every morning of the offseason began
with a workout in the company of the other NFL running backs in the
neighborhood. Gore, however, always stood out from the crowd of his peers,
holding an individual practice session at sunset in the evenings at a stadium
near his home in south Florida. Therein lay his secret weapon that helped him
be head and shoulders above the competition. "I know the contenders for my
spot don't do that," he said.
#Blessed 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿 https://t.co/5ljTL1p6dn
— Frank Gore (@frankgore) November 18, 2021
By going against his own habits
that day, the 38-year-old free agent thus acknowledged the near end of his
soccer career. Why drive your body to exhaustion when that aforementioned body
would soon be confined to the couch? But refusing to practice was not only a
small act of laziness, but also a test of sorts for the only partner Gore
allowed to perform coordination exercises and push a loaded practice sled
beside him in these secret workouts. The outcome of the test filled Frank Sr.
with parental pride. Frank Jr. went to the park on South Flamingo Road and
trained alone, despite the chance he was given to beat the buck.
"It was at that moment that I realized he understood the severity of the road to success that lay before him," Frank Sr. said.
Junior Frank Gore gets along
with his father just as most of his peers do. Even though he is now 19 and a
sophomore at university, having grown up in a world of unlimited meal plans and
pizza at 1 a.m., Junior continues to receive messages from his father
admonishing him to stick to healthy eating habits. Their mutual desire for
superiority is vividly expressed in every aspect of their lives, from
basketball battles in the park with a bunch of incomprehensible judging
decisions ("He's always cheating. Every miss he makes is my foul,"
Junior says) to heated arguments about who was the best player as a teenager.
("Here the answer is obvious. I could have turned pro right out of high
school," echoes his son, Senior).
How many kids can boast of seeing Frank
How many kids can boast of
seeing Frank the Tank reach another career milestone in person: a touchdown in
three different decades, third in league history in carries (3,735) and total
yards (16,000), first among early-rounders in games played (241)? But Frank Jr.
is also trying to keep up with his father. Last year, he led the Golden Eagles
with 708 yards per carry and shared first place in the nation in dropped grabs
per carry. In seven games this season, he already has 443 takeaways and 160
yards on receptions.
Frank Sr. is still a free agent
Frank Sr. is still a free agent, splitting his free time between soccer and boxing practice. The Mounties likely aren't destined to become the first father-son pair to play together in the NFL. "I hope he continues to play at the university next year. So I'm not sure I can wait that long," Senior said. Still, their paths are interconnected: a father wrapping up his career is passing the baton to a son continuing the family's history in soccer, or as both Gore are used to calling it, "the business."
No one knows what the future
holds for Frank Jr. But whether it's a long career in the NFL or any other life
path, the lessons he learned from his father will stay with him forever, and he
keeps them in his heart as carefully as he custodians the ball after a tab from
the quarterback. "He's my father, my mentor, my coach, my best friend, my
everything," is how Junior describes his relationship with his father.
Up! Seth! Hut!
Those three words were always
the signal for a stunt during parties. A trick that everyone loved. While the
adults were chatting at the dinner table, Frank Sr. would suddenly get into a
quarterback pose, standing behind the center, and Frank Jr., who had only
recently learned to walk, would assume the starting running position, get an invisible
tab from his father, and run at full speed to the imaginary first try line.
Frank Jr. was born in March
2002, two months after Frank Sr. won the national championship with the
University of Miami. It was clear from an early age that he was destined to
follow in the footsteps of his older namesake. At age three, he began joining his
older cousins' matches on the front lawn. Almost all of the matches ended in
defeat, but no one saw a tear from Junior. He played his first organized game
at four, and three years later scored seven touchdowns in a game for the Coral
Gabels Panthers - four on offense and three on defense.
Of the basic skills of the
game, Frank Sr. then taught his son only how to throw and catch the ball and
how to get the tab properly. "I wanted him to have a normal childhood. I
didn't want him to be forced to play soccer just because I love the
sport," Sr. said. Still, Junior followed closely the career of his father,
who overcame two torn anterior cruciate ligaments in college to be selected by
San Francisco in the third round of the 2005 draft. "We were playing on
the road. I would come home and he would always ask me about the game,"
Senior says.
Frank Jr. lived most of his
childhood in Miami with his mother. Shasta Smith left Frank Sr. but his son
always visited his father during the season when possible. The younger man
didn't like hanging out in the players' box or splashing around in the team
pool. "All I did was watch practice. I wasn't interested in anything
else," Jr. recounted. He never fell for the stars, even when he met
Michael Crabtree, his second-favorite player in the entire NFL after his
father. The boy's sharp mind, however, posed another problem for his father.
"I always had to keep him under control so he wouldn't say anything
unnecessary to the other guys like, 'You can't play,' or something like
that," Frank Sr. said.
Trick or Treat‼️🎃🎃🎃#FrankyLocks 🔒🔒🔒@BuffaloBills @Colts @RamsNFL @Chargers pic.twitter.com/MoIEzvWjrF
— Frank Gore (@frankgore) October 31, 2021
Together, father and son have
experienced all the ups and downs of a soccer career. The best memory for Sr.
remains his 9-year-old son sitting on his lap during a press conference after
beating the Falcons in the 2012 NFC Finals. In that game, Gore Sr. scored two
touchdowns. Jr.'s most vivid memory, though, is of him and his stepbrothers
Ricardo and Demetrious sobbing after his father's team's loss to Baltimore in
the '47 Super Bowl. "I was absolutely heartbroken at the time," Jr.
recounted.
But that failed San Francisco
trip to the Lombardi Trophy did inspire him. "From that moment on, I knew
what I wanted to do, who I wanted to be like and what it would all cost
me," Frank Jr. said. There was just one catch: for the first 13 years of
his career (10 at San Francisco and three at the Colts), Frank Sr. had little
involvement in raising his son. "The price of my long career was a lot of
my son's games that I wasn't at," Sr. regrets. Then, in 2018, Gore signed
a one-year contract with Miami and returned home for the first time in his
professional career. "I was over the moon. I was able to watch Junior play
live on a regular basis," Senior said.
Until then, Gore Sr. had only
been able to watch his son from afar and was impressed with the reviews,
especially about Frank Jr. becoming the school's team leader in 10th grade.
"I watched slices of his games and was pleasantly surprised at how
dominant he was over his opponents, especially near the end of the season.
There were some older guys on the team at his position, but in the last four or
five games the coach didn't want to take Frank off the field at all. That's
when I realized it was time to fully immerse Junior in my world," Frank
Sr. said.
That's how Frank Jr. got to
know "the business." He would get up at 6 a.m. to practice with
Leshon McCoy, Devan Singletary and other famous NFL players. "I wanted him
to be around these guys and understand that he's just like them. Keep it up and
you can be better than them," he told his son. Next on the program was
strength training, and in the evenings that "secret" second workout.
"By that point I had gained over 14,000 yards and I didn't have to work my
ass off in the second workout. I could just relax, get a check every two weeks
and mentor some freshman. But my son had to see the drive to be the best, so I
kept working," Frank Sr. said.
The results of this approach
became apparent in late summer 2018. On that day, Frank Sr. was able to watch
his son's match in person for the first time in years, and he was as nervous as
if he were going to be on the field himself at the crucial moment. Until that
moment, he knew about his son's potential only from the clips of the video, the
summer trainings and from the words of the coaches. Those were not the most
reliable sources for his father. However, at the very beginning of the match,
all skepticism instantly faded. With his first carry, Jr. destroyed North Miami
Beach's defense.
"That's when it dawned on
me that all the hard work hadn't gone in vain," Senior recalled.
Will Hall immediately noticed
something wasn't right. It was early September, and two days earlier the
Southern Mississippi players had committed four losses and lost to South
Alabama in the season opener. The coach was about to begin "debriefing"
when four freshmen players walked into the classroom, joking with each other.
The marching attracted the attention of the sophomore sitting in the front row
next to the door, and by the time the team session started, emotion had taken
over Frank Gore Jr. "He was sobbing profusely. Later, I asked him to hold
back and asked him what was wrong. And he said: "There are guys on the
team who don't care about anything, but it shouldn't be like that," Hall
recounted.
Back to the Bay!! 😤😤😤
— Frank Gore (@frankgore) October 15, 2021
This one is BIG‼️@PatrickWillis52 🐐🐐🐐#ForeverGrateful #Family pic.twitter.com/6IpUYpEtEq
Frank Jr.'s loyalty to his
cause is expressed in a cascade of different ways. During practice, he scurries
around the stadium like a mentally unstable kid at recess, managing to work on
his ball-defense skills one more time in between drills or fetch water for
linebackers. After practice, he rushes to coach Jordy Joseph's office to break
down video of the game. The coach doesn't even make it to his office and the
office is already empty with only a note waiting for him, "Gizzy was
here." "He wants to know the quarterback's pass protection scheme,
the receivers' routes. Why we chose this out scheme and not that one, and what
led us to that decision. He's just obsessed with soccer," Hall said.
Junior owes his approach to his
father, but that's not their only similarity. "We're a lot alike. I'm just
a little bit bigger," Frank Sr. states, being three centimeters taller
than his son and eight pounds heavier. The biggest difference in his father's
and son's delivery styles is the mobility of Junior, who also played
quarterback in his high school days. But the takeaways in which the runner's
greatest weapon is power, and on which his father built his career, are no
stranger to Junior, either, and he's getting better every day at that aspect of
the game.
Frank Jr. is ready to write his
own life story. Even when the Golden Eagles get a day off, he continues to wake
up at 6 a.m. "Habits have made me who I am today," he stated. In
training together, he is no longer inferior to his father in anything, and in
some ways, he even surpasses him. Last November, both Gore carried the ball to
the scoring zone in the same week: the senior with the Jets and the junior in
the game against UTSA. However, the family palm remained with Junior at that
point, as it was the second touchdown of the season for him and the first for
Senior.
Junior's "education,"
however, does not end there. This season, Frank Sr. attended a game in which
the Golden Eagles crushed Grambling State 37-0. In that game, Jr. gained 162
yards on 21 carries, including a 51-yard run into the end zone midway through
the third quarter. "Took you long enough," his father told him. The
next morning, they parsed the video of the match together, with Senior pointing
out the rough edges in his takeout style to his son.
In addition to boxing
promoters, a couple of NFL teams have been interested in Frank Sr.'s services
in recent weeks. But he continues to catch up as a father, coaching the soccer
team of his five- and eleven-year-olds, or going off to Wisconsin to visit his
son Ricardo Hallman, a freshman cornerback for the Badgers and half-brother to
Frank Jr. He's much happier as a father than as a player clinging by hook or by
crook to a spot in the lineup.
"I can still play. But it's my decision and I'm happy with it," Frank Sr. said.
His father's love for Frank Jr.
is expressed in a dozen daily messages. In most of them, he is told off for a
meal plan that includes too many McDonald's products. In addition to them also
come quotes from the Bible, reminders to thank the team cafeteria staff and
plenty of motivational admonitions pushing him to keep getting better.
"Along the way you have to beat everyone who says you can't do something.
That fact should spur you on," Senior recalled one of the messages to his
son.
Despite his father's
predictions, Frank Jr. has not yet given up on a dream in which two generations
of Gore will play together in the NFL. "It would be a gift from above for
me. Hopefully we'll play against each other, I'll win and I'll be reminded of
it for the rest of my life," Jr. said.
And if the elder Frank Gore wins?
"Then I won't talk to him
for a long time. Probably until next summer."